Hello from Long Beach! Our team of 6 college students and I arrived Sunday afternoon to a very cold and windy Long Beach. The outdoor showers proved to be quite exhilarating in 30 degree weather. Many laughs were shared.
Day 2
Monday morning we arrived at our residents’ home. We met the home owner, Dorothy and all the people Dorothy cares for. Miss Dorothy will tell anyone that God has blessed her beyond belief and so her ministry is to bless others with a loving place to live. With her in this house lives her older brother (age 62) who battles mental health issues; her two kids (ages 21 & 17), and 3 kids that were abandoned by their mother (ages 16, 7 & 4). There is never a dull moment in this house that is full of life!
Miss Dorothy’s house was rebuilt after the hurricane, but unfortunately the sewage lines were not cleared. Sewage backed up under the house and began rotting out the walls. Mold was literally eating the drywall. Presbyterian Disaster Assistance (PDA) volunteers cleaned up the sewage, cleared out the lines, gutted the drywall, and put new drywall up. Our job was to paint the outside of the house and 3 rooms inside the house. God had bigger plans. The crew got to work and by the end of the day the 5 bedroom house was fully painted, plus the front porch scrubbed down and cleaned off so that outdoor carpet could be laid.
Miss Dorothy was ecstatic when she saw her freshly painted house!
Day 3
Today we arrived to our residents’ house to find urine puddles all over the front porch that we had scrubbed so hard. Frustration immediately came over us. Who would do such a thing? Later we found out that the older man who has mental health problems got confused because his bathroom was blocked off for painting. He didn’t know where to go so all night long he went on the porch. Van, the site manager, sat down with us and gave us a little background on the house. He reminded us that we have to have unconditional love when we work with Long Beach community. We don’t understand why they do things the way they do them or why they don’t do things that we feel they should. God has still called us to this place. We may be the only glimpse of Jesus these residents have. We cannot throw an opportunity out the door because we are frustrated with their actions. We must love as Christ loves us. I don’t know about you, but I’m sure I’ve frustrated Christ with many of my actions, but He still continues to love me unconditionally and covers me with grace. We are called to do the same with our residents.
As we were cleaning today we saw a mattress covered in mold. I asked Miss Dorothy if we could take the mattress to the dump for her. She said no, because that’s the mattress that her brother used. There was no way this mattress was usable, not to mention sanitary! We took the mattress to the dump and brought back a brand new one. Sonny, Dorothy’s brother was so excited! I’m not sure he really knew what we had done, but he was excited we were hanging out in his room with him.
The house is finished on the outside! I asked Dorothy today what she wanted for Christmas. She said, “Look at my house! I’ve been telling all my neighbors to look at my Christmas present! The good Lord has blessed me this Christmas!”
Christmas is just around the corner and we noticed that the family’s Christmas tree was bare. So, today we went out and bought ornaments and garland and helped the kids decorate their Christmas tree. The little boys danced around the tree, they were so excited.
This evening we decorated stockings for everyone in the family! We can’t wait to stuff them!
Day 4
When you come to Long Beach you never know how God is going to use you. We laugh at ourselves when we try to plan out the day because God always steers us in a different direction…
Last night we decided as a crew to use our money to buy Christmas presents for the family. So, today we poked and prodded a little bit to see what everyone wanted for Christmas.
Today we knew we only had a little bit to do on the house, so we quickly got our job done and began cleaning up. While we were cleaning up Miss Dorothy said, “Every day you all have had something up your sleeve; some amazing blessing. Well, today I have something up my sleeve. I’ve ordered you all pizza for lunch and you can’t say no because it’s on its way!”
The hour we sat and ate pizza with this family could have been the most important hour on this trip. Miss. Dorothy shared her heart with us. She told us what she had been through with her brother and his disabilities, her daughter who had recently lost a baby to SIDS, and the 3 kids who call her “Momma”, but aren’t really her kids. Ms. Dorothy also has a brain tumor, but she said nothing will stop her because she has a mission to accomplish. Sonny taught us how to dance and sang Temptations songs for us. The little boys chased us all over the yard.
This house should be called Dorothy’s Mission House. She will take in anyone. Everyone who comes to stay with her must sign a contract that states they will follow the moral and ethical values of the house, attend church on Sunday and participate in the family bible study on Saturdays. She is reaching out to young and old residents of Long Beach. I wish you could all meet her!
Today we were also able to deliver a couch to Miss. Dorothy that the Good Shepherd team brought down last weekend. Tears streamed down Dorothy’s face as we brought the couch in the living room. All she could get out was, “Oh the good Lord is blessing me, the good Lord is blessing us!”
We got done early today, came back to the church, cleaned up and headed shopping. We bought tons of presents for the family. Things they were in need of and fun things. The crew spent the evening wrapping gifts and decorating stockings. We are all so thrilled to deliver the gifts tomorrow!!!!
Day 5
We had a few places to touch up with paint this morning. The house looks beautiful! We are proud of our work. After everything was cleaned up we brought all the presents into the house. Ms. Dorothy shot us a look of shock. “What have you gone and done now?”
The kids decided to wait and put the presents under the tree so they had presents to open on Christmas. We made Ms. Dorothy open her present early. The family lost all their pictures in the storm. The walls in the house are bare. We had taken a family picture of the Parkers, blown it up and put it in a nice frame. Ms. Dorothy also talked about how her dream is to get a digital camera so she can take pictures of her kids. Our group bought her a camera! When she opened it tears streamed down her face. She asked us if we were trying to kill her because of all the shock we had caused her over the week.
After the gift giving our group was getting ready to leave to go to New Orleans for the afternoon when Van, our site manager, asked the family to go with us. They agreed, but Ms. Dorothy said she couldn’t go because she had signed up to work at the food pantry. Our group and the Parker family, including Sonny, piled in the bus and headed down the road. We weren’t sure taking Sonny was a good idea. He uses a walker with wheels and we were going to be doing a lot of walking.
On the way to New Orleans, Sonny began to get confused and said he need to find a phone to call the general and let him know what’s going on in Vietnam. We had seen him go through episodes like this before so we just listened to him.
Once in New Orleans we were walking around the French Market and looking at all the art for sale. Van was in charge of Sonny and each college student took responsibility for a child. All of a sudden we turned around and Sonny was gone. Van took off to look for him; surely he couldn’t get far on a walker. Van came back after a few minutes and said he had searched the whole market and couldn’t find Sonny. We split into groups and began walking up and down the streets looking for Sonny. After an hour we still hadn’t found him. I called the police, but they said they couldn’t do anything until he had been missing 24 hours. Finally we called Ms. Dorothy. She was mad! Not at us, but at Sonny. She said, “Mmm Sonny gone actin ugly on you! He know what he do. He do this every once in a while, but I didn’t think he do this for you. You don’t worry about him, if he wants to find you he will. Don’t worry about coming home without him.”
WHAT?!? Come home without him? You mean we just lost a man in New Orleans and we are going to head back to Long Beach without this man! Our group didn’t know how to react. We were in shock!
By the time we were ready to go we still hadn’t found Sonny. So, we did what Ms. Dorothy told us to do and we came home without Sonny.
We’re still in shock and have been praying all night!
Day 6
We got a call this morning that Sonny has been found. He had gone to a hospital to get medicine. Praise the Lord he is safe!
We had a great trip back to Lilburn today. It is always sad to leave long beach, but indoor showers will be much appreciated!
There’s still more stories to be written about Long Beach, MS. Is God leading you to be part of them?